Wise Sayings of Mamayunus Pardayev on the Theme of the Family

If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm...

If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, do not be jealous of your wife. Always express your affection to her.

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Women love to be cherished and to see love expressed openly. Know how to respond to this appropriately.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, when misunderstandings arise between you and your wife, identify the cause and do not harbor enmity for even a moment.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, stay far from the thought that only you are right. Explain things gently through discussion and dialogue. Never become loveless toward one another.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, acknowledge your shortcomings and do not repeat them. If a family member falls short, explain it patiently and agree together on ways to correct it.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, remember that women want their husbands to possess the same qualities that they themselves like: kind words, a pleasant appearance, clean clothes, and a pleasant fragrance.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, be attentive to your family. If your wife does not know what you want, do not tire of teaching her gently. After all, you will live with her for a lifetime.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, explain a certain philosophy to her in a very beautiful way. For a woman to be a queen, her husband must be a king. In the family, she should make you feel like a king, and correspondingly you too should live as if you were living with a queen.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, you must not pamper her excessively either. In mutual relations, every action and word should be used in its proper place and in moderation.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, spend every day in comfort and contentment. The fairest kind of love is precisely this: living in comfort and contentment. It means being grateful for what you have, patiently seeking the way to attain what you lack.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, do not compete with one another over who does better. However far you run, you cannot leave the circle of the family.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, the sincerity between you must never weaken. Let sincerity in your mutual relations be the motto of your life.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, it is not necessary to bring flowers home every day. It is enough to give a little affection, which is not sold at the market and cannot be found anywhere.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, always keep your intentions pure. Whenever you form a good intention, Allah will grant you according to that intention and improve your circumstances.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, live wishing goodness for yourself and for others. If you do so, goodness will keep coming from directions you never expected. The reward of goodness is goodness itself.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, be generous of heart and live with pure intention to make others happy as well; Allah will not diminish you by your making others happy, but will continue to increase your standing and your sustenance.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, value your time. For it cannot be bought with money. Link earning and spending money to time, and learn to allocate them properly.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, think about spending as well as earning money. If you earn it grain by grain and spend it lavishly, it will be hard for you to remain well-off. Teach this to all members of the family.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, when your money exceeds your needs, think also of charity. There is a saying: "What is in your pocket is a trust; what you give away is your own." If you give charity for the sake of Allah, no one can take away its reward.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, when your wife feels like a queen seated on a throne, do not try to drive her away from it. This throne is in truth yours, but the queen too has the right to sit on it from time to time.

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If you wish your family to be peaceful and calm, take a woman's psychology into account. Women are delicate souls who wish to manage their husbands and their own families. Do not hinder this trait of hers. If she manages the family properly, it will be a relief for you. When she makes a mistake, explain your own approach to her in a graceful way.

From the wise sayings of Mamayunus Pardaev